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I know i wanna move home with mum and dad just pretend im a kid for a bit. Recuperate me and the kiddies and move on. My husband is a dick
Just one foot in front of the other until someone better at adulting comes along lol. Some days I can adult really well. Shit gets done and I feel good. But other days, or other things on the to do list are beyond my capabilities. Like how the f**k am I meant to organise a home loan for someone else when I have no experience in that shit? Not today Westpac, not today. What the f**k even are taxes and why can't I use a blue pen? There are people who know what to do there, so I'll outsource to them. Everybody wins
It sounds crazy when you're so busy and time-poor, but you need to take time to look after yourself. Have firm boundaries around your time, like giving yourself a night off of making dinner once a week. Block time out each week to be alone for a couple of hours or more so you can hear yourself think. Arrange for you and your partner to each facilitate for the other a weekend away, by themselves.
I find that when I don't do that sort of thing, I'm more stressed and I can't trust my reactions. When my mind is racing I get frustrated easier, I loose my temper with the kids and fight with my husband more. By having some time to myself I'm able to reset, relax for a bit and then I find the chaos of life easier to manage.
Good luck 🤗
I don't know sometimes. I don't know anything about politics, not even the basics. So I just put the numbers in any box.