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You fire her! It doesn't matter that it might inconvenience you while you find someone else to look after your child or drive the half hour to your sister in laws! The safety and wellbeing of your child is more important! I can't believe your even questioning wether to leave your child with two drunk teenagers, one whom you don't even know...and think is weird! My god sort yourself out will you!
I dont think I'd feel comfortable having her watch my kids again. Even if she did admit she had some guy over and promised to never do it again. No way could I trust that. I know it will inconvenience you while you find alternate arrangements, but rather that than have someone I can't trust watch the most precious thing in my life, my children.
Im going to get someone else to watch him. Looking at daycares this week so will hopefully find one soon. Just hard with my job i am gone 6am til 4pm and she was all i had.
Don't give her a reference or recommend her to anyone, just get her away from your child.
Get a new babysitter or get a daycare. No way would I be leaving my toddler alone with someone who was drinking and bringing people around my child and lying to me.
First I would call her and talk to her about really happened, give her a chance to explain.
Second I would start looking for someone else.
I definitely wouldn't be getting her back, if it's a struggle getting your sil to watch him, with her being half an hour away. How about advertising for a qualified carer? Will pretty much cost the same as a daycare.
But it's not good enough for her to be doing that behind your back, she could be putting your lil fella at risk.
I agree with the other posts, do what ever you have to but don't trust her or leave your son with her again. Her boyfriend could be dangerous.