Answered 1 year ago
When we first met he didn't play games but over the years he's gotten to the point where its mostly everyday especially everyday on his blocks off. He's a day shift worker with week on week off. Now I wouldn't mind if it was a few hours here and there. But it absolutey makes my skin crawl the way he yells at it, gets mad, talks about the people he plays with. Its like he'd itching to get to it, I find it embarrassing that a grown man plays video games, if he's not on that he's now using his freaking phone to play. I want to smash the damn consult right in front of him I feel myself burning up with anger. I fkn hate it.
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Maybe you need to talk to your partner and put some boundaries in place together. He needs to know that you don’t like them but you also need to understand that games may be a hobby for him, they may be a way for him to have fun and unwind. I wouldn’t be okay with him yelling at the games or talking badly about the people he plays with though. Especially if he does it around the kids.