I don’t know what I’m doing writing on here... I’m scared sick.
I don’t know how to make it short, from the time my daughter was 7 months old and climbed out of her cot, walked at 8.5 months... she’s been a climber. I say that because she’s always had a freakish ability to climb. And always been just drawn to it.
She’s been a gymnast ( more a flipper) and been loving a silks class she does.
She didn’t take to the rock climbing like I thought and got bored after a few months.
Lately she’s been getting into trouble for climbing cranes and buildings. The posts go on instagram.
She’s never been allowed an iPad or phone and I had a rule that if she wants a phone she has to be able to afford it. Which she now can.
She’s 16... a GREAT kid. Good friends, has her own little businesses she has started and is working to gain more experience ...
I don’t want to stop her as this is what she loves but one slip and she could kill herself.
I did stupid shit, climbed a few cranes too, sat on some cliffs and building edges but never did jumping and climbing buildings ect.
I torn between letting her be her and begging her to back off.
Iv already lost a son and I can’t tell if that’s clouding my vision.
I don’t know why I’m posting on here.
I’m so scared for her.
Where do I let go or stuff in the reigns.
She’s 16, I don’t even think I should be this is where you start to let go right?