Announcing a cancelled engagement.
Answered 2 years ago
My partner proposed while I was pregnant with our now 18 month old son. Since then he has changed his mind and has said he doesn't want to get married or have any more kids, he is happy as we are now. We haven't made a big deal out of it, but he doesn't want to be asked about a wedding date etc anymore and wants to officially announce we aren't getting married anymore at our mothers day zoom catch up with family. I think it's humiliating and have said our relationship will be over if he does, apparently I'm being ridiculous. Surely he doesn't need to make a big deal out of not wanting to get married? Am I being unreasonable?
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It wasn't as bad as it sounded, when he told me he didn't want to get married it gave me a chance to plan for the future. I went back to work and have kept my money separate. I decided at the time that I wasn't going to stay in the relationship.
He did tell his family the engagement was off I added that we weren't together any more and once the lease is up on our place we will look at living apart.
How's it all going ♥
I hope IF he told the family, you told them it wasn't your idea! I dunno why he couldn't just stay engaged?
Don't let him manipulate you like that