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Answered 2 months ago

Ok so my wifes brother and his gf came round for drinks a few week back and we was all having a great time . Me and my SIL went outside for a cig and she started telling me stuff about how my bro in law talks to her and how he always gets her down . It was as if she was wanting me to reassure her that she is pretty and she does deserve to be treat better . Anyway we went back in side and carried on with the drinking and so on and we really was having a good time . Each time i looked at my SIL she was looking at me and gave me a cheeky smerk . I knew what kind of look this was and knew she wanted me a even caught her checking out my package down below when i was stood up , she knew exactly i caught her looking . We ended up back outside for another smoke and after 20 seconds of been outside she asked if i wanted to kiss her ! I shouldnt blame the drink but i am , but i ended up kissing her round rhe side of my hoise and she had me pushed up agaisnt the wall and we was really snogging each other . After about a minute of this she reached down and grabbed my d**k and then went on her knees and starting sucking . I couldnt believe what was happening . It was like this massive build up of flirting between us all night and then booom ! Thing is i cannot stop thinking about what happend and after a few days she msgd me saying she does not regret it and wants to go the whole way . Im married and been with my wife 14 years . Im 32 and the SIL is 20 . As relationships do me and my wife are more like friends rather than lovers so to have this stunning blonde 20 year old throw herself at me is like a dream to me . What should i do got the whole way or ....

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2 months ago
It's only lust/fantasy. If you go there you'll ruin many lives, yours, your wife & family. Things will never be the same again. You'll be filled with regret, shame & guilt.

Either leave your wife or create some fun, adventure & spark back into your marriage. Do Date Nights, 30 days of Sex Challenge, send daily texts & sexts to your wife, compliment her, you'll be amazed at the results.

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2 months ago
I promise its not fantasy . This really happend and they are both coming round again friday for drinks and her hopefully another gobble 😆

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2 months ago
Hopefully another gobble? You have zero shame. Gross.. 🤮

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2 months ago
Well, you're repulsive. Be a better husband!

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2 months ago
Just a quick update . They came round friday and we kissed again and she felt me up . Going to ask her this saturday when we are actually going to F#@k cos i cant keep just kissing and sexual contact . I need to go the whole way

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2 months ago
I implore you to think about HOW YOU WOULD FEEL if you found out that YOUR WIFE was outside your house during a little get together and she decides to go out and ge her pussy sucked on by some HOT, 20 something, blonde firefighter under the guise of smoking??......
However, regardless of how that would make you feel, your WIFE deserves your honesty and the truth. If she wants to open the relationship then great!......but YOU have to be OK with her doing the exact same shit you do!.
I find in these situations more often than not, the Man wants to get his dick sucked all over town and fuck whomever and whatever he wants. But if he even THINKS his wife has looked in another direction, he wants to flip the fuck out and go all balistic and shit.
The days where the Man does whatever he wants and gets to beat the shit out of his wife for not having dinner hot and on the table when he gets home are OVER!!!.

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2 months ago
Cool story bro

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2 months ago
Back away from the SIL, you've already gone too far. Tell her to leave the bf, get her out of your life. Don't be alone with her again.

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2 months ago
Leave your wife. Not so you can hook up with a 20 year old piece of meat, but so she can find someone who is not a lowlife cheating scum