I lived in an outback town in my 20s where *most* the bars were skimpy bars.
I've never really had an issue with it. The women don't care to sleep with the sleazy men, they are just fun, body confident women raking in the tips. And in fact if I went out drinking with my gfs, I think you'd see most guys trying to hit on regular girls who were drunk enough to put out. I wouldn't be concerned about the titty aspect of the bar, I'd be more worried about him getting drunk and trying to sleeze all over the drunken easy girls personally.

I would not be happy with it either. I find it disrespectful. If a man is single, ok, but not if he’s married.

Throw the pig out on his ear!!

How did things go OP

Yuk

as the old saying goes. Doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you eat at home

Thought processes are very powerful at wiring the brain. Simple neuroplasticity - if your husband is at a titty bar “enjoying the view” (which men are practically hard wired to enjoy) chances are he has already imagined himself cheating. Scenario or situation arises where he is put in a compromising situation he will more than likely not walk away from it. Let’s put it this way - if you are continually thinking of bonking your neighbour next door and enjoy the thoughts - your odds of continuing your behaviour are pretty good if you get the chance. Neurons that fire together wire together. Good luck.

It wouldn’t sit well with me.

I used to be a skimpy, i was pretty tame as far as they go, never did sex shows or anything like that. In 5 years of doing that work i never met one decent man. Even the ‘good ones’ were bad, infact worse then the ‘bad ones’.

I can tell you with absolute certainty that your husband is a piece of shit. Men who go to live sex shows are the worst. Listen to your gut.

I think it’s just common courtesy to not go doing that when you have a wife at home. But that’s my point of view. My husband has done it in the past and I wasn’t impressed. He says he doesn’t now but who knows. I just have to take his word for it

You're right to be upset, I think people who are OK with that type of work (degrading to women) are a different breed. Its hard to come to the realisation that your husband is disrespectful towards women and supports the sexualization of humans for his own gratification. Its simple respectul people don't support that kind of thing.

I don’t care if it’s a stag do or anything, but as a lunch time thing? Like, are they eating there? Is The food good? Isn’t it a dark place to hang out during the day?

They have always been popular. He is going as one of the guys or just because it’s there. I would only have a problem with it if was a regular thing.

I suppose he could have gone Without telling you and you would never have known. At least he told you. I live in a mining town and skimpies are in many of the pubs. It’s no big deal. Surely your husband is allowed to admire the female form as long as your form is the one he comes home to.