Thoughts on porn
Answered 8 months ago
It has never bothered me my husband watches porn on his phone but I just found out he was watching before we had sex not so long ago and now I don't know how to feel on the subject.
I'm hurt that he felt that was something that I wouldnt care about and that he never thought about how it would feel if I found out he was doing it.
Is it something I should be hurt by or just something to let go?
We have been together for 10 years and we have 2 young kids things aren't what they used to be and I get that and that's why watching it in general doesn't bother me.
Have an answer?
Why does it bother you? Is it because you are thinking he needs it to have sex with you?
If that's what it is, why don't you ask him why he needs it?
Maybe he needs a little spice in his life. Not saying you're boring but 10 years is a long time together, (hubby and I just tucked over 20 years) you both change and your needs change.
Talk about it with him. You might find you enjoy it together. Good luck.
It enforces men's entitlement over women and adds to the misogyny of this world.
Offer to watch it with him before sex if your up for it
Just now and again. Hot!