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Husband has been a condescending jerk. He works FIFO last time he was here right in the middle of sex he said my moves weren't good. He hasn't spoken to me since. This time since he's been home he told me he'l talk if I make him cum. It makes me feel like a whore. He's never acted like this in 12years and 2kids together. Thinking of a hotel for me and the kids tomorrow. I don't know what to do this is not the sweet guy I married.


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5 years ago
When she stepped off the plane to work her first FIFO job, Julia believed she was stepping into a housekeeping job. Instead, she was abruptly told she’d been reassigned to the kitchen.

After two months of off-the-cuff, sexual comments from men walking into the kitchen, Julia finally realised why she’d been reassigned.

“I was having a drink in the bar with a girlfriend two months after we’d started FIFO work and the site manager walked up to me and said ‘The only reason I put you in the kitchen was so I could walk past you and stare at your ass every day’, that was the boss of the whole site that said that to me,” she said.

Another time, Julia and her friend were leaving the bar when a FIFO worker approached them and said, “You’re going to come to my donga and f**k my d**k”.

One of the final straws for Julia was when she heard a man say to one of his friends as they walked past a female shop keeper, “Look at the sweet tits on that one I would f**k the legs right off her”.

She took the sexual harassment complaint right up to the superintendent, a female, but a week later she spotted the same man walking on site.

Julia and the woman who had been the target of the man’s words were later told by the superintendent there’d been too much “red tape” for her to do anything.

“Women need to know they can get taken care of there, especially if these things are happening,” she said.

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5 years ago
Women also need to toughen the fuck up and come up with a few pin dick jokes.

We cannot enter a mans world and expect them to change - be reasonable. Instead, get a bit of resilience or else, work in a different environment.

For God's sake stop playing the victim card!! Who cares if they talk shit about your tits and arse. Talk about their beer gut, overhang and bag breath.

If you can't handle the banter get a bloody job in a retirement home kitchen!!!

Im sick of these soft women making us all look bad!!

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5 years ago
My husbands behaviour changed and he told me (after 20 years of no complaints) that I wasn’t any good in bed. Turns out a girl was after him at work and had said “ if I had a guy like you I’d be having sex with you multiple times a day. I love sex and I’m so good at it”. Then went on to say what she’d do. I guess it made him feel like our sex was boring compared to what she was willing to do. She ended up with someone else and we went back to our boring sex. Sorry for long story, but I think someone else is involved. It doesn’t mean he’s cheating, maybe he’s just hearing what others get up too and feels he doesn’t compare.

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5 years ago
He’s cheating on you

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5 years ago
Has he been seeing someone else at camp? This is bad and seems like something else may have happened

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5 years ago
Omg what a pig.
I’d be kicking him out and changing the locks!

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5 years ago
Sounds like somethings changed ....i hate to be that person...but do you think he might have a bit on the side when he's away? I'd stand my ground if I were you. If he's unhappy he can leave. Be busy, always going out, always be on the move with the kids.

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5 years ago
I think he should go somewhere, why should you and the kids have to go!

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5 years ago
He's got to be highly stressed and unhappy in his life if this is a sudden but gradual change for him. I don't think his behaviour is acceptable at all, and sure a hotel is a good idea but there must be more going on, be careful

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5 years ago
Sounds like a pig, I wouldn't be hanging around.