So I have my 15 year old niece living with me who identifies as gay and gender fluid. Imagine the shit she gets at school. Best thing I did was put a bowl for phones at the door and the only social media they are allowed is Insta and it’s closely monitored. I’ve got three teenagers here all up and it mitigated most of the bullying and what did occur at school ended when the school day did. Photos were put up of her and mean comments she high resulted in me having “words” with the mother of the other child involved whilst that child was in the car. Basically let them know this was about as polite as I got and if they weren’t removed immediately and the behaviour stopped I would be having words with the child directly. She seemed to think it was fine to send her husband around to the house to intimidate me ... enter my husband.. .. photos and comments removed by the following day.
Don’t bother going to the school. They are absolutely useless.

I really feel for you. Teenage girls are very tricky. I’d say just be there for your child and reassure her that while it may feel like the end of the world now, these things won’t matter after high school.

Boys seem to be dumb and impulsive. Girls are just so much drama! I feel for you ♥

My dd is going on 15 and we've been very fortunate. She's an amazing kid and never gives us any trouble. Hope it stays that way 🤞

Its a scary age they are growing in. The world is in turmoil , there's so much pressure, there's social media and they have many roles they're expected to fulfill.
Just love her op, she needs it.

Hormones, peer pressure, there's so much going on.
My daughter was the worst, until we ended up doing online school. School impacted everything so much

Oh god this scares me. We have 3 little kids. And all 3 are girls 😂😂😂

Hey OP! I can’t share any personal experiences (mum of boys here) but when you manage to get a minute with her this afternoon/tonight, I would suggest constant reinforcement that kids that are nasty are usually unhappy kids; whether it’s an issue that stems from home or otherwise. Tell her to not show any weak signs ie: crying infront of them because that increases their nasty behaviour. To ignore them, to report any bullying to the teachers, to save messages for proof. Remind her that she is beautiful, kind and caring and to not stoop down to that level. If she’s having constant drama and issues with same group of girls she needs to find new friends that make her look forward to going to school. Btw you are not a failure, hang in there and tell her you’ve got her back no matter what. Good luck x

Girls can be very nasty. My daughter experienced similar things when she first started high school. If it is bullying, it needs to be addressed. If just plain mean, encourage her to ignore the comments and hang out with a girl or group who support her rather than criticise her. My daughter handled it all very gracefully.