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What do I do?!

Answered 6 months ago

I'm about to be a single woman after a 6 year relationship. Im 26, kiwi and living in Australia. I have no biological children and am unqualified and inexperienced in pretty much everything. I have no family here or in NZ, no friends, no job. Literally nothing. I'm scared because no matter where I go I will have nothing and no one. My partner and his two kids have been my whole life since we got together... Before him I was living with the physically abusive B*tch I once called 'mom'.. Without my partner I literally don't know what I'm going to do.... Any advice would be much appreciated, I'm kind of desperate to get out before he tries to take me back to NZ again. I don't want to live there ever again. Please, Help?


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6 months ago
Don't be scared - be brave! It's a great opportunity to follow your own path and make your own adventure. Just start small - get a job. Baby steps. Lucky you're not starting over at 40, that's a whole different kettle of fish. Many have gone this path before you - myself included at 28. I was terrified and lost. Littke by little, things work out. They always do. My life is more than I could've wished for, you will be the same - jyst be brave and keep on keeping on. You'll get where you're meant to be :)

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6 months ago
Don't move back there then.
Time to get yourself together and pursue the life you want! Good luck

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6 months ago
NZ is awesome! It’s a big country I’m sure you can avoid your Mother. Lot’s of support available from different services you just need to ask for help.

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6 months ago
Perfect opportunity to make some decisions. You are sooo young and based on being a step mother you have a wealth to offer at such as young age. Think and come up with some lists on what you want

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6 months ago
Well get a job, lots of stuff in hospitality around at the moment . Move into hostel, caravan park, really anywhere temporarily, enrol for one of those half price tafe courses, upskill. Don't be a victim. And don't be a pushover

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6 months ago
Heaps of jobs in support work most don’t need experience.