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In the bedroom oral

Answered 7 months ago

Ladies, I need your help I am a male. Married kids etc.
I give my wife oral regularly because that is the best way she cums. However it is never returned. She says she hates doing it. If I ever mention it. She gets cranky and we go at least a month without any sex. If I stop doing it to her. She gets cranky and we end up with no sex for a while. Am I wrong to think I'm being hard done by.


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7 months ago
I like to give me husband a starter blowjob to get him going as he's circumcised, saves getting the lube out. Personally I like sex rather than oral, so everyone to their own I guess. I just make sure my husband gets it regular enough so that he doesn't just blow his load in me too quickly, that way he can make me cum and visa versa.

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7 months ago
I still give my husband a starter blowjob and he’s uncircumcised lol

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7 months ago
very fucking typical of a female who wants control but cant have it, next time lick her and finger her bum ! sounds just like my wife, loves my licking her and making her cum but just will not go down on me

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7 months ago
I have a selfish husband who likes BJ's, I give him oral very regularly, but doesn't give me any in return. It's been 2.5 years & a year before that

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9 months ago
Well I’m not the one you have asked to answer I’m a man too
And I know exactly what you are talking about as I lick my wife very often and she loves it and cums with all the pleasure she loves and moans etc even riding my face and yes I love it too but it has been years since I have had her suck me and probably over 20 since I received a blowjob !! It just isn’t right !!

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9 months ago
Stop giving it to her! That's just selfish.
And no you shouldn't give to receive but over 2 years without a blow job when she gets it regularly? Hell no.
I'll admit my husband does go down on me more than I do him but he prefers to have sex. I probably give him head once a week where as I get it probably 3x a week.

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9 months ago
I should mention it's been more than 2 years since I recieved any

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9 months ago
I hear you. My man loves receiving, but rarely gives back. I could easily give him a BJ 1-3 times a week. Last time for me was 2 years ago, before that 1 year ...... He knows I love it, but obviously can't be bothered. So I rarely give him a BJ now.

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9 months ago
1 to 3 times a week would be a dream. We only get intimate once or twice a month if I'm lucky.

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9 months ago
Let her be cranky, simply ignore her bad mood, and as hard as it may be, do not feed in to to her selfishness. She should, if she hasn't already, be honest with you, and tell you exactly what giving oral to you, she doesn't like! Hopefully, you both can come up with a few new interesting ideas, where you can both be completely satisfied, and not feel like the sex you share, is a competition, and she's got the trophy! She wins every time, you please her, ,if she won't do the same, stop giving it to her completely! If she gets cranky, walk away, go for a walk, or anything else you can do, so you won't be tempted to give in to her. Think more of yourself, because she sure only thinks of herself, when she doesn't get her way! You deserve better than that! No matter what, please remember,

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9 months ago
Stop. Don’t do it. These things must be fair and sex isn’t a punishment she needs to grow up.