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Blaming menopause

Answered 8 months ago

I had an affair and now just don’t want to have sex with my husband of over 25 years? I said to him one day that I didn’t want to have sex with him anymore!? then a few weeks later I said I didn’t feel like sex because I’ve started going through menopause? Yes we do have sex but very rarely and I do like it with him but I’m also thinking of the other man even when he has got me horny and riding me ! Just don’t know what to do ?
Thanks for any advice

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8 months ago
Either put work into your marriage or leave and let him find someone better. You’ve already cheated so as far as I am concerned your not much of a wife.

8 months ago
Maybe you should speak to your Doctor or go to counselling and sort things out.