What more can i do?
Answered 4 years ago
I left an abusive relationship not long ago and my ex has been trying to make me look like the one who has anger issues, abusive etc
We have young Children and for a month he withheld them from me, limited contact with them and made me jump through so many hoops to see them. Including making our contact text only, making me take mental health evaluations and complying with his demands.
As school is now starting to resume he is ignoring my requests to get their school things back so i can start sending them.
I got their uniforms at the start of the year as well as bags and shoes so really trying to find away to get them instead of buying new ones
Ive sent countless messages with little to no replies.
Im just at a loss on what to do
I feel silly contacting my solicitor about something that should be able to be worked out between us
I feel hes doing it to make it look like im a bad parent so he can have a better shot at getting the kids to live with him.
What more can i do?
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Buy new ones and just keep plodding along, its not fair but men never play fair. Ive been there.
My dv ex tried to say my meds caused the bruises etc. Smh men are liars and master manipulators. Stay firm.
Any change in kids behaviour document as well after contact with him.
Even the smallest.
You need to be smart when it comes to narcissists and be a step ahead of them at their game.
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And n the future, he has clothes and stuff at his and you have yours. Never supply for his house. You wont get them back.
Just have to act like he's not damaging your reputation, hopefully eventually people will see him for the lying cunt he is.
Hopefully you can afford to get new school stuff, in which case that's what you should do, just act like you need and want nothing from him at all
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Hes the type that if you stop control he becomes much much worse in his actions
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Going to court soon to get orders in place so in limbo with it at present.
Just their school things he wont send with them and it’s stressful as i want to do right but getting their school necessities is a struggle