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How soon is to soon to say I love you in a new relationship

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2 years ago
Hubby and I met on a blind date and said we loved each other within a week of meeting, almost 20years later we are still crazy for one another

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2 years ago
My dad proposed four days after meeting his partner, 15 years still together. I think he’s crazy but it works for them.

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2 years ago
I don’t know how you can love someone you have just met. Love is something that grows, it isn’t instant. Lust is, and it can be very easy to confuse the two. But they aren’t the same.

I dont think you could know you love someone until you have known them at least several months. As to when you say it, so many variables and Very dependent on the relationship.

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2 years ago
We don’t believe in sex before marriage so it definitely isn’t lust

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2 years ago
^you can still feel lust but not act on it because of your beliefs.

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2 years ago
Depends how well you understand yourself.
I only was confused in the first two or three guys, from my 20s I always knew. Some were intense lust, I can see how others would confuse but I know it was simply lust and attraction, others had a similar lust, not instant love but had I stayed with them it would have absolutely turned love , in fact 17 years later I still care for them and have affection for them.
My husband I knew within the week I loved him. 16 years later iv never questioned my love for him despite questioning our relationship lol.
I had one other boyfriend who I knew within a few weeks I loved him. It was short lived and a right person wrong time sort of deal.
Although I knew with hubby after one week that’s not to say that love hasn’t grown, and become deeper, layered and stronger, but it doesn’t cheapen the start of it.

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2 years ago
So to be clear. You have been speaking to someone for a month and you have just met and want to tell them you love them?

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2 years ago
No I am asking once you start dating how soon is to soon we have both been out of the dating game for a while, we have clicked perfectly we don’t believe in having sex before marriage.We have admitted to each other we are falling in love

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2 years ago
If you have already said it to each other, why are you asking? If you are questioning it then I doubt you really feel it.

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2 years ago
OP I wouldn’t bother answering this one.

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2 years ago
My partner told me after about 2 weeks of dating. We had been talking for 3 weeks prior, and known each other for about 6 years and apparently the whole time I was with my ex he used to tell his mates he was going to marry me haha. I felt it was a bit too soon so I just told him I might love him too then about a month later I actually looked at him and said I love you. He cried 😂

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2 years ago
Whenever you feel it. My hubby told me after about a week. 11 years later were still madly in love 🥰

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2 years ago
6 weeks 4 days and 9 hours

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2 years ago
😂😂😂