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Ladies, are you sexually satisfied in your relationship?

Answered 7 months ago

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    49%
  • No

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7 months ago
No way. I got sick of asking my partner for sex. Always one sided. He’d rather watch porn, so I bought a few vibrators and have trained my brain so be satisfied with that instead. I’d leave but we have kids.

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7 months ago
Sorry to hear. I’ve been through this too although I went about it the wrong way. Please put yourself first. Do everything you possibly can to communicate this to your husband. I thought my husband knew how I felt about our sexless marriage but he had absolutely no idea the heartache and damage it was causing my self esteem.

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7 months ago
Thanks for your reply. How should I go about it? I’m honestly better off talking to a brick wall it’s that bad. Things used to be good but not anymore. He’s fake & lies so much. I’d leave but too expensive to get a family lawyer so I’m just putting up with it for my kids sake. Never ever thought my life would be miserable like this. I used to have an amazing life 10 yrs ago :(

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7 months ago
I pegged my husband for the first time last night and it was AMAZING! I never in my wildest dreams would have thought I’d ever do something like this, but we’re starting to open up more and try new things. I’ve never seen him cum so much before!

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8 months ago
No, I feel it’s all one sided, all about him. We’ve been together for 10 years and it’s always been the same. We’ve talked about it but it never changes. Lately it’s been worse, he doesn’t last long and on occasion when he does it’s not that great for me. I am bisexual, sometimes I miss the attentiveness of a woman. We have also spoken about this my husband and I. He has all the information to make it better for me just doesn’t try and gets himself off. No foreplay, no continuing on after it’s just about him.

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11 months ago
No, i have no desire for my husband at this current time.

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11 months ago
I am too fat to have sex with apparently. I am a size 10 with a great rack. Interesting!

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11 months ago
He is probably having an affair.

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11 months ago
Ups and downs, but overall no. I would love it to be more consistent and about mutual satisfaction every time. Isn't that the point of love making after all. Else I fell it's just "fucking", a race to get your personal gratification without care much about the other person...much like a "fuck boy" just wants to shag and move on to the next. I think women get "fucked" a lot more than "made love" too. Most men I reckon don't care (or given up on caring) and just want to get off. How much more happy and deeper would relationships be if mutual satisfaction was the norm?

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11 months ago
Absolutely not. When we do have sex it's extremely one sided and that's when we do!

There is no intimacy, no kissing, no foreplay.
He pops my legs up or puts me in doggy to make himself cum and that's about it.

I have sex dreams nearly every night, even during the day I think about sex. I think about being touched more than anything things like having a hand on my breast, fingers running down my body.

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11 months ago
Definitely.
We communicate well and are open and honest with one another. We have known each other forever and we’re both divorced when we got together. His ex wife was dull in bed and ridged. I was always very open sexually even in my teens and 20s and loved to try new things. He had a few health issues that affect his sex life because of pain and he saw sex as an obligation you do once a week. My drive is much higher than his and it took a solid two years to get him around to seeing sex as something we should be having fun with... now we are both very happy and in a great place.

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11 months ago
It’s so nice to hear people that are happy sexually in their relationships. Kudos to you and your partner 👍🏻

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11 months ago
I like the whole comment except the ex-wife comment. It feels a little disrespectful and misplaced to me, even though I sense you are explaining him. Everyone is different and every female at that, why not make the comparison comment on yourex who you had a relationship with instead?

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11 months ago
Yes 100% although I think my husband would probably prefer to have it more often and I'd be happy with less often. But I do enjoy it. He's not selfish in bed & we know what each other's likes & dislikes are.

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11 months ago
He puts in no effort at all and my entire sex life is basically one sided maintenance designed to keep the peace. I hate it. I resent him for it. A lot of the time I know it’s coming so I have a few drinks to get through it.

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11 months ago
Sometimes it’s great sometimes it’s not , sometimes I’m into it sometimes not . Overall, I’m satisfied.

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11 months ago
I want and crave sex and he just doesn’t give me enough and I love giving head and love the taste of cum but he doesn’t have a high enough sex drive and can only manage a short sex session which is just not enough I mean I just get going and he cums and that’s it no more! I need more ?!

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11 months ago
Yes. My husband is deployed for weeks at a time, so when he's home we go at it like rabbits.... Probably why we have so many kids now 😂

Sometimes I get frustrated when hes not here and I want sex, but it's worth it for the anticipation aspect.

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11 months ago
No