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No that is not normal. 12 hour drinking sessions? Either he has Gotten so blotto he has no memory of what happened. Or he doesn’t want you to know. His becoming defensive when he asks suggests to me he doesn’t want you to know.
It's a no from me.
You set the standard for how you will be treated and this is doormat level.
Doesn't sound normal to me, especially if he is doing it often. If it was a once off for a bachelor party or something I'd be more understanding, but the way you've described it sounds like too much. Are they trying to relive the glory days or something? Also that must be expensive!
How old are you guys? Did you get married young? It’s not really what I’d consider typical husband behaviour. I mean it’s fine for your hubby to hang with his mates, but 12 hour drinking sessions every weekend is too much! Especially if he’s in his 30’s or older.
My partner is 46 and does this sometimes. It with mates he has known since high school.
They play pool, ping pong , footy during these benders. It usually starts with a bbq, they are big meat eaters. They usually have another bbq feed around 2 or 3 and another at daylight.
Eating so much they are never usually written off drunk, they are big blokes too so can easily handle 12 hour benders.
When it’s at our place I usually cook the Breaky so mines not charcoal. As long as they don’t skinny dip in the neighbours pool anymore They are always welcome here.
Oh and fireworks have been banned too lol
Yeah they are big kids, they have heaps of fun though!
If we marry the stag do will have to be at least a month before the wedding, maybe two!
My husband would be served divorce papers if he acted like this. 12 hour bender. Don't think so. Kick the prick out.
You are a disgrace if you'd leave a marriage over that. Especially if you have kids. No wonder so many men cheat on their wives if they're suffocated the way you advocate.
My husband doesn’t even enjoy going out with blokes. We usually catch up got dinner as families he prefers that.