Would you be pissed off at your husband for this?
Answered 4 years ago
One of our best mates has an off again on again girlfriend, this has been going on for years. Ive only met her maybe 10 times though (thats a whole other story) She is incredibly volatile when she's had too many drinks. She has absolutely unleashed on me previously for something i didn't do nor did it have anytjing to do with me, nor did it warrant any kind of reaction. Anyway, we are now civil to eachother but I'm not very comfortable around her. Anyway, she wants help to buy a car, our mate/her boyfriend is away, so she asked my hubby to look at the car with her and hes agreed. Points to note - 1. he is incredibly busy with work so has to take several hours out of his day to do this, if he's going to do that then he can bloody spend some time with me - not the woman who verbally abused me for about 15min straight. 2. She is a known homewrecker (she was involved in the demise of our mates marriage). 3. Hubby had a long term affair a few years ago. I am not happy!
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No way i would allow this.
Wipe them all out of your life, her, the good friend and your husband.
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He's not helping her for her sake, he's doing it to be a good mate. And probably hoping his mate will help you if your he was away and you needed help.
Chill girl.
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Be very very gentle and nice suggesting he goes on his own, then walk away and let him think about it. He will hopefully realise it's a better idea and won't take up so much of his time and don't mention him having an affair, or say anything that will turn it into a battle.
However if he goes and spends a day car shopping with her make the next few days of his life hell. Because you are completely right he should not go. But he probably doesn't want to, but can't say no.
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Nip this in the bud right now, even if nothing happens between them you will be always wondering by the sound of it
And btw, i cant stand this whole ‘i need a man with me to buy a car bullshit’ 🙄 ive never taken a man with me to buy a car, she should be able to google what she needs to be looking out for if she dosnt know already. This is not 1977.
He probably thinks he's doing right by his mate, but you seem overly concerned which doesn't really give me the feeling you trust your man
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But yeah Id be seriously pissed if my husband did this. he should support you.