How did you ask your husband for a divorce, did everything just fall apart or was there a conversation, or did you just
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How did you ask your husband for a divorce, did everything just fall apart or was there a conversation, or did you just have the papers served via your solicitor?
I would like to ask my husband for a divorce. He will be surprised, shocked in fact. I even think he might think I’m joking. He’s completely oblivious to how unhappy I am despite me having multiple conversations with him I’ve the last few years. I cannot continue to live someone who doesn’t love me back. It is simply exhausting. I just need some support right now, thank you all. Please nothing nasty, I’m not strong enough to handle that right now. Financially I’m not worried. Have a high income and three beautiful kids. They see me unhappy at times which worries me.
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I wish I left when I knew it was over but I couldn’t for the kids.
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In my heart I feel it’s too late to salvage. I’m done. I really don’t want him to say he wants to save the marriage.
I could write a letter easily. I’m a keen writer, although you wouldn’t know from my original question. So many typo’s! Autocorrect is awful!
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He is a good man, and a wonderful dad. I don’t want to shatter him. In the past, his good points far outweighed the bad, I’m older now and not willing to continue looking beyond the faults. They’re too significant to ignore.
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Put yourself first. You deserve to be happy