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You take those things back and get a refund if you can and then leave that selfish pricks a*s
What a shitty thing your husband did! And then to call you self centred? I'm sorry you have a toddler for a husband. I hope you can stil have a nice birthday xx
No, you are not wrong and you deserve to have a nice day for your birthday. He is being selfish, he is being inconsiderate and he is being an a*s. Find something else you would like to do for your birthday that won't have to include him if he doesn't want to help you, his wife who loves him, celebrate your birthday.
No you're not wrong at all! Kick him in the a*s! And then take your kids and just use whatever money you can get your hands on on you and then. F**k the selfish a*s if that was me x
The fact that you had to ask makes me worried. I think he is doing a thing that abusive men do called gaslighting. Basically they keep telling their parter she is always in the wrong, she is crazy, she actually deserves to be treated like crap, etc etc, until she starts believing it. My advice is get away from him as soon as you can.
Happy birthday! Unfortunately, you're husband is a selfish dickbag. You've done nothing wrong. Maybe he could've gotten away with his jeans, but spending your birthday money on a game for his brother? Who the f**k does that, and to their wife no less?
He is gas lighting you. Please find help to make a better life for you and your children. You deserve it.
Jeez. I thought you were saying he wanted money out of the 300 to buy YOU a present, in which case I was going to say, it might not be ideal, but if money is tight, that's okay. But money on himself and his brother. F*** him.
I spent years with birthdays like this, he is projecting his bad attitude onto you, you're in no way selfish for feeling like you do HE is incredibally selfish in his behaviour. Adult entitled toddlers have a habit of twisting bad behaviour to make you feel it is your fault and destroy any self esteem you have left.
Hind sight is wonderful, divorcing my ex narc was the best thing that happened to me.
Happy birthday xxx
Hugs and happy birthday xx
Put aside some money when you can, get yourself a present and celebrate with someone other than your husband. Make certain to post it on Facebook so he can see what he has missed and add a comment of birthday treat or something.
I think you need to research narcissistic personality disorder. My father in law is a narcissist (confirmed by psychologist) and this is something straight out of his book.
This is absolutely gaslighting.