Is it time to leave as nothing will change? Husband had an affair 9 moths ago
Answered 2 months ago
Husband got caught having an affair with a girl that knew our 2 year old child and knew me and that I was heavily pregnant. He got caught on our babies first night home. For the last 9 months he has hardly apologised or shown any respect or empathy for me. He just lazily spoils our toddler when he pleases but does have a close relationship with her. He has shown little interest in our baby girl. It’s been 9 months now and he finally come to counseling with me. We have had 1 meeting and from that it was he wanted a months break and time to see if he missed me? Wtf yes. So he is living just up the road and comes sees the toddler as he feels to feed her a bag of lollies. Ontop of having a toddler and baby I have been shocked by what’s happened and traumatised and anxious and exhausted etc. I am on antidepressants and have had months of therapy. I am going to start doing mindfulness. I have been listening to podcasts if anyone has any suggestions of any good ones at all. I know I should leave but I just can’t seem to bring myself too at this stage. Is there any hope for us to work it out or is all hope gone?