Follow up/new question - re relationship question.
He messaged me last week acting as if everything was ok. Told me that he was sorry, he was really busy. Now he’s been only giving me small messages, won’t arrange to see me and won’t even call me.
In the time it took for him to contact me again I was sure it was over, and because I thought I was on the free market I slept with someone else. I feel really bad about it but don’t want to say anything to him about it but know I probably have to. I don’t know if he is just keeping me hanging until he gets a better offer or if there was genuinely a reason he was ghosting me.
I don’t even know what I’m really asking, maybe I just needed to get it off my chest, maybe I need reassurance, maybe I need an opinion of random people who don’t have the emotional attachment I do to this.
Please help!