Horrible ex wives and bitchy behaviour
Answered 4 years ago
So when I started dating my partner he warned me about his ex wife and her friends, that they would make my life a living hell. I laughed it off, but sadly he was not wrong.
I’ve been gossiped about, cornered in bathrooms, yelled at, accused of things I’ve never done.
Now we are living together and I love his kids. We have a great set up with all the kids and it’s fantastic. She will not let up though. She badmouths me to the kids, she lets them overhear really adult conversations where I am just shit canned mercilessly.
This has been going on for a few years now and whilst I laugh a lot of it off and don’t give it much of a second thought, it’s starting to have an impact on the relationship I have with his kids and I am starting to notice I really fucking hate her. I have always been a really upbeat happy go lucky kinda girl and if I am not your cup of tea then move along but her bullshit had been relentless and so ongoing and to prevalent in our lives that it’s made me into a sour person. I dread having to do pick up because I have to hear her stupid fucking bogan voice and deal with her crap.
I just dont know how to move on past it
Has anyone else had to deal with this
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She sounds like an absolute cunt but you really do not have to deal with her. Block her number, she deals with hubby and ONLY hubby. Block her out of your life and focus on getting back to your usual happy go lucky self. Or, alternatively, just leave.
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She is a horrible person. Horrible horrible.
Put your big girl knickers on and confront her. Not Infront of the children but let her know you've had enough now and to shut her mouth or you'll take further action. Time to stand up for yourself mumma!
She can't dribble her shit, if her jaw gets broken can she?
There is the right way to go about things - nicely, through polite and legal channels.
And then there's the other way - show her what happens when she acts like a piece of shit, she gets treated like one.
The fact she recruits her friends to harass you, shows how much you've let this go past its "be reasonable" date. Then, to add to that, she involves the children. Gross. Kick the shit out of her and end her smugness.