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What are some subtle signs you are headed for a divorce?

Answered 2 years ago

I am increasingly unhappy with my home life. I feel I could be happier in my own place. We don’t spend time together, we have different opinion on things and when I voice my opinion he gets angry, it’s like my opinion is attacking his, it’s not, it’s just different. It’s like he wants me to agree with everything he says. He doesn’t compliment me or treat me special. I am wondering why we are together, just for the kids? I used to do everything around the house and work a full time job. Since I have asked him to pick up the slack he is resentful. Not sure where this is going, but for the first time in my marriage I’m attracted to other men. The only thing that stops me is my “marriage” but he doesn’t seem to notice or care.


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2 years ago
As someone who battled for 14 years to save my ‘marriage’ i would say, GET OUT NOW!!! DONT SPEND ANOTHER YEAR OF YOUR LIFE IN A MARRIAGE THAT IS NOT SERVING YOU..... LIFE IS SHORT..... DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. It will be tough to begin with it, but it will be worth it in the long run. Divorce and all that usually takes about 2 years or so for all the drama to die down, so be ready for that and know it wont last forever. Dont waste your life or your potential future on staying ‘married’ because its the ‘right thing to do’ ... Be free, be brave and be happy. ❤️Good luck.

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2 years ago
^take note of this! Xx good luck from me too.

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2 years ago
I'd say all your signs are there then. Counseling?

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2 years ago
He doesn’t want to go.

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2 years ago
^^oh oh. That's the biggest sign of all 💔

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2 years ago
Thinking these neon flashing signs are subtle signs is probably a sign in itself.

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2 years ago
I guess I meant he is not a drug user, works a steady job, we’ve been together a long time, have two great kids. Maybe I’m selfish for wanting more?

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2 years ago
You are not selfish for wanting more. You are entitled to want more. Go and get what you want. In 100 years we will all be dead, none of this will matter, none of the rules, wether yiu stayed or not. Do for your life what you’d want your kids to do, if it were there life.

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2 years ago
Read the book love and respect, its a short easy read and will save your marrige

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2 years ago
Not OP but thanks I will track it down

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2 years ago
I will look for it. My thinking is I will read it but he won’t. Not sure if that is fair.