Whits end with selfish husband!
Answered 4 years ago
I am at my absolutely whits end with my absolutely selfish so called other half! After suspecting he’s been lying about finances I’ve made the discovery that he has been receiving rent from a flat he has and he’s been pocketing the money... keeping it far from my knowledge! I knew about the flat however he said the tenant was refusing to pay so no longer renting it to him. This has been going on since September . He’s been lying and saying that he’s broke and can’t pay for his sons formula or daughters medicine, all the while taking money off me to the point I had 10 dollars in my account! My money is ours and anything he receives he sees as his. I asked about having a join account and he said he likes to be in charge of “his” money! He’s even told me on the same day of collecting and cashing the rents cheque that he can’t afford to put gas in his car... also the same day he gets paid! What am I going to do! I have children. I am not financially dependent on him at all
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I think that you are going to have to talk to him about it, see if he comes clean with you and tells you the truth to your expectations. You can start with telling him that you have suspicions that he has been lying to you about the rent and would like to give him the opportunity to tell his side of it. If he continues to lie then you will have to to consider your options and consider seperating or marriage couselling at least.