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Am I the only one who notices that loyalty is very rare thing these days?

Answered 2 years ago

In friends, lovers even family - everyone is only thinking of themselves. Where are the old fashion values? Do people teach them?


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2 years ago
Meghan Markle is selfish

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2 years ago
^seriously. 🥴

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2 years ago
I think you need to get over your Megan markle fascination dear 🙏

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2 years ago
There's always good & bad. I won't hurt anyone to be selfish, but my loyalty has been eroded by other people's selfishness. It's been destroyed by family who don't care who they hurt to get their way or friends who call me when they need support or to have a whinge, but call others to have fun & exclude me. So now I'm only loyal to my DH & kids.

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2 years ago
OP of above comment here.... Case in point...just got the expected cancellation message for this afternoon with lame excuses - including partying all weekend with other friends so is too tired. Hence why I don't 'loyally' keep my afternoon open anymore!! Can't even be bothered replying. Guarantee same thing will happen for our next scheduled meetup. If anyone knows where to find loyal, respectful friends I'm listening! They seem like Unicorns to me!!

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2 years ago
I could have written that comment myself.

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2 years ago
I've been experiencing the opposite lately. Incredible generosity and thoughtfulness by people I thought didn't like me all that much.
To me, that's loyalty. I don't partake in gossip, unless it's to say something nice about someone (eg, have you seen Gina's new man? They're so cute together!; or the new lady at school makes the best cappuccinos, she's really good), so loyalty in the face of scrutiny is not something I've had to deal with. Who knows, maybe my friends are actually backstabbing bitches. But I'm happy to not be part of that lifestyle.

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2 years ago
I trust every single person in my circle. That's why they're in my circle

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2 years ago
Age?

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2 years ago
My age? I'm 45.

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2 years ago
Omg i was just having a cry to myself about this.
Everyone is selfish
I trust no one any more

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2 years ago
I've been there 💗

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2 years ago
Yup everyone is selfish and don't care about anyone or anything

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2 years ago
Sorry you ladies are dealing with this right now x

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2 years ago
My sister in law only sees us as family when it suits her
We ignore her texts and ph calls

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2 years ago
My experience is different.
Sure there’s bad apples but by and large, I know many decent people

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2 years ago
Agree

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2 years ago
It isn’t a new trend. A lot of people are like this. Social media just makes them stand out more.