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How often do you give hubby a BJ?

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With busy work & family life, often I'm too tired for sex by the end of the night. I usually end up giving hubby a BJ about once a week which can be fun for us both, just wondering what everyone else tends to do...? Everyone has a different "norm" in their own relationship but just curious how that compares to other busy mums?


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4 days ago
i would not be complaining as a guy we love it

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2 years ago
I love giving my husband BJ's, easily could do it 1-3 times a week. I've slowed up quite a bit though, to every month or two. This is because he basically never goes down on me, only maybe once a year. Even though I've said I'd like it once a month, he keeps telling me "Yep, your turn next ......"

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2 years ago
69

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2 years ago
69's are overrated, I'd rather lay back & enjoy receiving it, not trying focus on cumming myself & getting him there too, you know, trying breath with bit & pieces in the way

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9 days ago
^^^^^^ That’s probably because she doesn’t know how to suck dick and he hasn't had a decent blow job.

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9 days ago
Probably only once a month. We have sex more often

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9 months ago
Married 11 years and have never given my husband a Bj.

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9 months ago
Oh just do it! You'll see how enjoyable it is. I do it everyday ,sometimes multiple times a day when I get the opportunity . Happy wife, happy husband

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8 months ago
At least you're consistent. Better than starting out with BJs and then quitting! (I'm an attention-deficit husband).

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7 months ago
And you are still married?

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9 days ago
Amazing. You should talk to my wfe

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2 years ago
It used to be just about daily. Then he stopped going down on me so I stopped going down on him. He complains about it, but hasn't put 2 and 2 together that he gets one whenever he goes down on me. Some men are hopeless lol

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2 years ago
Hahaha. No clue have they ? 😘

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2 years ago
Same here, no BJ's for him, 'cause he doesn't go down on me. I'm sick of giving & not getting any back. He hasn't made the connection either, even though I've spelt it out to him. It's funny also, as his favourite saying is "well if you've noticed ..... blah blah blah "

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2 years ago
Op of this comment- yup, I've flat out told him I'll give when I receive and still nothing. He always has a reason "my tongue is sore where I bit it, my neck hurts, I'm tired etc." I don't give excuses, I just say I will when you do 😂

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9 months ago
haha, Im a man and i go down on my wife at least 3 times a week and sometimes every day and she does not give any in return, no does not go down on me at all!!!!
After just being married she stopped going down on me so I decided to really give her a great time going down on her every day for weeks with no return, then stopped but had to start again as I was missing her cuming all over my face, still nothing and its now been years since she has gone down on me, but she still orgasms when I go down on her, so who has no clue?

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8 months ago
I would go down on my wife 10 times a day if she would let me and not really expect anything in return unless she wanted to. Unfortunately she is too inhibited and prefers just conventional sex and usually only if I instigate it.

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8 months ago
second that. She used to treat me to a blowjob once in a while but has stopped completely. Married 10 years. Every time we have sex I go down on her cuz I LOVE IT and she will come! But nothing for me - she is to where she won't even touch the thing. I could have it tattooed and she would never notice.

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14 days ago
Same here I go down on my wife all the time, she loves it but refuses to go down on me

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11 days ago
Men hopeless or just some ??
I go down on my wife all the time and never get it in return !!! It gives me the real crankies and she loves it and I sometimes ask but no never happens but I bet she does for her boyfriend?!

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11 days ago
Find BJ more work than sex

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15 days ago
We are the opposite of most of the people I see responding in that I give my hubby blowjobs 1-2 times a week and only have intercourse once a month or every two months.

I dont like the mess after intercourse and my husband refuses to wear condoms so we just don't do it. Oral sex us a lot quicker and there is no mess after. I can do my thing quickly and go on with my day.

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2 years ago
Rarely. We'd rather have sex.

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4 months ago
That's sex also.

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2 years ago
I think it is important to keep DH from jumping the fence so I do it 3 times a week.

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2 years ago
Do you ever do anything else instead of sucking him? My husband gets a bit bored when things become "routine".

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2 years ago
You’re a moron

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2 years ago
If your husband jumps the fence hun it's not because you don't give him head

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2 years ago
You are doing it to keep him home
You’re an idiot

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2 years ago
^Agreed. Why would she have to 'bribe' him to stay faithful? That's sad

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6 months ago
I think you are a caring person. Dont mind all the lazy hater matress queens. You're smart.

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9 months ago
As soon as he gets home and we're alone ! I just swallow him whole without hesitation and suck/lick/kiss/nibble until he gives me what I want deep in my mouth. Momma worked hard for that sweet juice and hubby is happy!

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9 months ago
Usually in the morning and late at night. Whenever he wants, whenever I want to have him in my mouth. I swallow and then I kiss his penis and balls. I just love him

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9 months ago
Daily. I love to have him in my mouth. I love gulping his esssence and licking him clean afterwards. Now that I'm pregnant I do it more often. Always ready to give him pleasure

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9 months ago
Everyday. I love munching on his penis before bedtime or in the morning on weekends. Sometimes we shower together and I go down on him. Other times we come back home for lunch and I kiss his penis and I can't stop myself from loving his private parts. When he's shaving too I get down on my knees and make him happy. I love my man

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9 months ago
Every other day , usually when he's getting out of the shower before bed . In the morning on weekends

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2 years ago
Not as often as he'd like. He's too big and my jaw starts aching very quickly. But I recently had an epiphany, I can get tips on how to do it from watching gay porn. Specifically man on man because the guy sucking dick has an intimate knowledge of what feels good when he gets his own dick sucked. Since I figured that out, I've given only one blow job, but it was the best one yet 😉
It used to be I'd suck him maybe once or twice a week in the lead up to sex. But now, armed with my secret porno ideas, I'll be on him like white on rice.

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2 years ago
He loves giving me oral. So i always return the favour. Nearly 4 times a week

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2 years ago
It’s the only way he can climax. I like doing it, makes me feel powerful.

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2 years ago
Nope not after he put on so much weight and won’t do anything about it, I find it gross. I resent him for not wanting to look good for me because I used to enjoy giving it to him.

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2 years ago
Hardly ever. Poor bugger 😂😂

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2 years ago
Never. LOL.

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2 years ago
Your poor guy!

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2 years ago
It's not your husband so why should you care?

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2 years ago
Me too- rarely, once in a blue moon. It's not the end of the world. We a beautiful relationship.

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2 years ago
^same same 💕

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2 years ago
Not as much as I should. When I do it's before sex, hubby takes forever to cum and my jaw aches and aches. So I do it then we finish off with sex.

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2 years ago
I love giving head and my hubby loves getting it. I would say normally once or twice a week.

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2 years ago
OP here, same with us :) Though I'm sure hubby would love it even more hahaha