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Is this fair ?

Answered 2 years ago

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My sister spend $10 each on my 3 step kids and $50 each on my 2 kids


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2 years ago
I don’t think it’s fair, but I’d just leave it alone.

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2 years ago
No it’s not fair. Kids aren’t any less important because they’re not biologically yours. That kind of thing hurts kids.

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2 years ago
Tell her in your own very tactful way that you really appreciate the gifts, as do the children but if she chooses to give a gift could she please distribute her budget evenly as you want all the children to feel equally loved and accepted in the family.... or, if that’s too confronting, wait til she’s gone, then divide what she has given in a more even way, to show the kids that while this has happened, it is not fair or right.

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2 years ago
Good answer

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2 years ago
As a step kid myself, my 7 year old self was so hurt by this. It affected my relationship with my step siblings, dad, and other step family.

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2 years ago
Did you have much to do with your step family ?

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2 years ago
No. That's pretty shitty behaviour.
Do you think it's fair?