So we had the party! We had a stripper!

He did bodyshots (we would drink a shot out of his bellybutton while he lay on his back) and he would squirt whipped cream on his body for each girl to lick off as he danced the room - for most this was on his chest.

For the bride to be, he was full monty and squirted the whipped cream up his dick - and she licked it all off!

Perhaps if handjobs and whatever is on the cards y’all communicate that to the partner and he clear on agreed upon boundaries. She cool with him going down on a stripper in the reversed situation?

I’ve been to a few in home and nothing happened beyond a bit of touchy feely grinding and that’s it. Been to a bucks too (loads of male friends and a bit of a what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas attitude) with topless waitresses who ended up being escorts who did end up in back rooms with a few of the guys. So maybe it depends??

I don’t see the fascination to be honest. A bit of fun is a bit of fun but getting physical with a third party right before your getting married???.... why bother getting married if that’s the mindset you have

I think you need to reconsider this idea.

Isn't she just making this an excuse to cheat?

Would she be happy to found out her soon to be husband has a stripper organised specifically for fingering/sex play? Aka a prostitute.

Unless they've got an open relationship or this has been agreed to by her partner this could very easily break up a relationship. End a marriage. In fact I feel like I'm reading the fallout of this situation. Its awful and sad to think about.

If my link does not work it is from reddit, the relationship advice forum. Titled
I (26m) found out my fiance (27f) possibly gave a stripper a handjob at her bachelorette party

The end results are not pretty.

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/e35vj6/i_26m_found_out_my_fiance_27f_possibly_gave_a/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

I’ve been to some of the public events and it was lots of fun! Most touchy mine got was one of the guys giving my boobs a playful jiggle when I got called up on stage, and i was able to give his cock a bit of a fondle!

Given it was a pubic event I imagine it might be a bit tamer than a private show.

Also one of the guys had a towel up on stage during the last part where they call girls up on the stage... didnt see anything but did wonder what might happen behind the towel when the girl is on stage for a lapdance...

Why give him a handie? Nothing to get out of it for her but a sore arm & mess. Bleugh.

Yes... back when we were all single we had one come to a girls-only party. He danced around and he would stop at each person, and basically everyone started to stroke him for a few seconds before he moved to the next person. People gradually up'd the ante and a few would suck him for 10 seconds or so (everyone had been drinking!)

He ultimately ended up cumming on the birthday girls low cut top/bra/boobs.

Everyone was cheering and had a laugh - none of us were married or with kids at this stage.

We had a stripper come to an apartment for my best friends hens. There was lots of attention, touching but not sexually. Maybe we're prudes but not down to whack off another man while married or about to be married. Maybe you'll have to enquire about what stripper allows that.

Yes. He was chubby and unattractive and on heat. It was embarassing. We asked him to leave.

I've been to many - I've never seen inappropriate conduct - sure lots of flirting but never that far. It's always super fun!