Should I tell my sister in law her husband cheated?
Answered 4 years ago
I recently found out my husbands brother cheated on his wife. He has a history of cheating and did it multiple times to his first wife (using prostitutes as well as hookups, but his second wife doesnt know this)
The incident ive found out about happened two years ago so im inclined to leave it and pretend i know nothing, however 'girl code' is niggling at me as i would want to know if it was my husband.
They have children (some are his and some they have together) so thats another factor to consider.
Every time i look at her i feel immense guilt, and pretty much everyone in our family knows as they helped cover it all up for brother in law, so i feel so bad that they have all just been lying to her.
Its a shitty situation as i know she isnt happy due to his bad behaviour (heavy drinker who doesnt hold his alcohol well as well as his mysogynist views on women) but she loves the kids and is an outstanding step mother to his children.
Would you keep out of it or speak up?
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Please explain more details so we cam learnt from you?
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"Your loyalty is not your husbands family .. your loyalty is your own heart and your own ethics which stand for righteous things .., " which I learnt probably when I was 5-6 years old...
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SO what are you going to do?
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And i highly doubt he will give her aids!! He more than likely wore a condom.
He’s a decent person? No decent person cheats.
I’ve been cheated on by my own husband and he wasn’t even “decent” enough to wear a condom. I found out by getting an std. very silly to assume he would wear a condom
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It happened 2 years ago. Leave it. Girl code or whatever aside, it really is not your business. If he’s as big of an ass as you say, his wife is probably already very aware he’s a player.
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Her and i arent very close but still its family right?