How long has he known he was dying for? Is it a new development or has he known for a while? I assume the kids woukd go to his parents or family or any of the mothers family that are willing to take them. Kids need stability especially after big life events / changes and especially after losing a parent.

Not after onky 8 months. They woukd have grandparents aunts uncles that would take them in. Why would you think someone who has known them for a few months would be given custody?

A partner of only 8 months and they're willing to take on 3 children they barely know? The kids can't be passed like a baton. There is a very long process and the children may end up becoming wards of the state if their biological mother is unable or unwilling to take them. So sad. My heart goes out to the kids 💔

Why do we need to know the ages of your children? Are you asking for your friend or yourself?

Absolutely wouldn't even have to think about it

There is not alot of info to go on. You said Step kids so I assume that your friend has been in the kids lives for awhile and has had a fair bit to do with them as they were living with the father. Under these circumstances then yes I would. Absolutlely but it might not be as easy as that. There could be family members involved who want to raise the kids. I am not sure what the relevence of your kids age is seeing as we are talking about your friend not you.

Fuck yes I would.
if I have practically raised those kids they are mine. What their dad dies so I kick them into foster care because their mother can’t raise them? That’s bloody horrible.

I don't have step kids, but I think it would depend on if there was any other family able/willing to step up (grandparents/aunt/uncle etc). After a longer relationship then most likely yes.

Confused about the relevance on your children's age?

I would - My step kids mother is on the scene though and she's a great mum and person in general. I would hope she would allow me to spend time with our lot and I don't think there would be any issues. I certainly wouldn't go for any type of custody but definitely want to remain in their lives. My partner and I have been together for 7 years though. I'm not sure if I would have had the same opinion at 8 months in as we weren't even living together at that point.