Sexually frustrated & resenting my husband!
Answered 10 months ago
My husband is the only man I've been with, and I lost my virginity to him when we got married.
Before marriage, my husband had dated a few girls and had a normal sex life (including sex in outdoor locations and public areas, though not infront of people or anything).
I am getting really really frustrated now though - I am craving a taste of the excitement that I never had before marriage. I am jealous that my husband had it and I never did. Where it leads to resentment is because while our frequency of sex is fine (sex usually twice a week, and I'll give him a blowjob once or twice a week as well), it is BORING. I am craving something more adventurous and to push normal boundries but my husband doesnt want to do anything more than good ol' normal married sex.
How can I scratch my itch for something a bit more adventurous, or get some real excitement and thrill, while still respecting what my husband wants?!
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I’m in a similar situation and we are working through a similar thing now. I married my high school bf and now I’m in my 30s, I want to try it all while I’m still young.