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How can I increase my sex drive? I feel like a dried up old bitty

Answered 11 months ago

Been married for 30 years now and my husband and I only have sex once every month or so - I want more but just don't feel like it.. what can I do??


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11 months ago
The easiest way is to have sex everyday the more you have it the more you will want it. You will start off not enjoying it but then you will realLy enjoy and miss it.

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11 months ago
I would suggest you raise this with your partner talk about how you feel, come up with a date night plan to slowly address the issue. He most likely doesn't understand why you now you don't feel like sex even though he most likely adores you . I know I am in that position and my partner is gorgeous and does not feel like sex.

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11 months ago
If not already start an exercise plan or program and there are lots available on the internet and some are free ! But being active helps every part of the body and mind and if you feel good then you might even wear something sexy when no one is around

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11 months ago
Maybe get out and exercise or take a fitness class, I know when you feel good, you will want more sex, and hubby's love seeing their girls in activewear.

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11 months ago
Might be worth having your hormone levels checked. And a specialist womens doctor is usually best for this. When even small reductions exist in certain hormones, it can have quite a significant impact on things like sex drive. And modern hormone replacements are effective and easy to take.

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1 year ago
When I dont feel like sex but know I should have it with my partner coz it’s been a while I watch porn nothing to serious but it usually gets me going

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1 year ago
Make sure you have time together to spend on each other. Massage, talking about fantasies, sexy clothes and that type of thing. The main thing is to put in a concentrated effort.

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1 year ago
Tell him. Try to initiate more.
Sexy clothes. Work out. Nice make up. Nice hair. U know make him wanna bang you