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What do you do when your kids are with kids their dad ?

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2 years ago
Relax, study and clean up or declutter

REPLY
4 months ago
Relax
If my partners kids are over when my kids are at their dads I still relax
My partner is my step kids slave

ANSWER
4 months ago
Supervised visits every 6 weeks, I spend the 2 hours sitting in the car drinking coffee and writing shopping lists, updating my diary, doing my budget.
I wish he was responsible enough to have them unsupervised and longer

ANSWER
2 years ago
Cry

REPLY
2 years ago
Why ?

REPLY
2 years ago
Asking why to that is a bit of a silly question

ANSWER
2 years ago
Party, sleep with randoms

ANSWER
2 years ago
I don’t know - he never has them. They are with me always!

ANSWER
2 years ago
It's been 5 years for me (alternate weekends). I spent the first year struggling but hanging out with friends, then building stronger friendships with old and new friends the next few years. I've had a boyfriend the last 6 months and I'm very much enjoying the sex!

ANSWER
2 years ago
My kids are with their dad half the time, I work those days mostly so I don't pay for child care and if they are sick or it's holidays it's dad's responsibility. If I'm not working I relax, or go out with friends. It's a great set up and means all the responsibility is shared equally.

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2 years ago
If they are sick or it’s holidays it’s dads problem. WOW.... doesn’t sound equally shared

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2 years ago
On his days obviously not mine.