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Husband secretly buying viagra

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So I found out my husband has brought viagra, and got it sent to a mates house.and he also used one of those untraceable credit cards to buy it online. I found out and he says it was a secret for me!
Now I’m not stupid..... but we do have quite frequent sex as I am quite younger than him but why all the hassle to keep it from me?
Would he be cheating? Or just embarrassed, I’m so confused and angry.


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10 months ago
My husband secretly bought viagra too - but not for me. For his lover.

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10 months ago
That's alot of effort to go to just because he's embarrassed. I'd be more concerned about his failure to be able to communicate with you if that is the reason he's hiding it from you. Also it's pretty sneaky in general I'd be keeping my eyes wide open from now on.

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10 months ago
Im younger than my partner and he has tried viagra to a get it and keep it but also to try last longer. Men feel demasculated if they cant preform and feel we are not enjoying ourselves. Talk to him and trust him. You married him, you should know deep down if something else was going on. I would just say he is self conscious about keeping up.

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10 months ago
I wouldnt jump to any conclusions about cheating or anything. He is your husband - trust what he says unless there is a specific reason to think otherwise.

I would think he wants to do something to improve his performance, and yeah - it would be something nice to do as a surprise.

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10 months ago
If there are no other signs of cheating, I’d say he is embarrassed. You’re younger. You have frequent sex. Maybe he has noticed changes and is afraid of letting you down. You do need to talk to him about it.

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10 months ago
Honestly could go either way.
He could very well be embarassed, or want to last longer. Try talk to him about it xx