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Answered 2 years ago

I was sleeping, and the guy I was with started putting his penis on my vagina - before we slept he wanted to have sex but I told him I didn’t want to.
Anyways, as I’m sleeping he pulls me closer to him (i thought he wanted to cuddle) I was still asleep, until I deemed that there was something touching my vagina, didn’t think much of it until he moved my pants to try and go in.

I slowly started waking up, (still tired) and told him how can you attempt to wake me up like this? He then lifts my leg so he can have sex with me from the side. Still tired and forcing myself to wake up, i put my leg down and sleep on my stomach. He gets up and tells me he wants to have sex in a doggy position, but, I stopped him and told him to put a condom on…

I don’t want to scream rape but the way it started doesn’t sit well with me. Is it rape? Because I did tell him to put a condom on, which counts as consent right?


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ANSWER
2 years ago
You consented by asking him to put a condom on!
Not the nicest way to go about it but it’s not rape!!!
He did not force you!!!

ANSWER
2 years ago
Not okay. You told him no, he kept pushing and you gave in. He didn’t respect your boundaries and he took it upon himself to force you.