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Does your partner need good self control for to use the pull out method

Answered 2 years ago

My bf thinks he can but goes crazy when he is inside me and now twice he has cum. Wont wear a condom. Cant take the pill
He reckons he wont again... im not too sure


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2 years ago
We rely on it. No unplanned pregnancies.

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2 years ago
Hi. Not trolling. Can i ask why you use this method? 😊

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2 years ago
Condoms give me a really sore fanny, like I've been hag sex with sandpaper. And hormonal methods take too much toll on my body.

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2 years ago
I wonder if you're allergic to latex

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2 years ago
Why not use a diaphragm?

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2 years ago
Could you get any more irresponsible?

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2 years ago
Yes this wouls never work for my bf. He has to finish or goes crazy. Finish in me

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2 years ago
He sounds very selfish. Does he even let you have an orgasm?

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2 years ago
Grow up and take some fucking responsibility. By this time next year, you'll probably have a new baby and be pregnant with another. It's blatant attitudes like yours that we have so many unwanted pregnancies in this country and tax payers are forced to pay for babies they didn't have. Jesus Christ. If you don't know the first thing about sex, then maybe you shouldn't be having it

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2 years ago
Start saving. You gunna be up the duff soon. I have a 5 year old to prove pull out doesn't work. One shot pre cum lol

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2 years ago
OMFG If anyone thinks you can't get pregnant because he 'pulls out then maybe you shouldn't be having sex. Maybe this is why there are so many unwanted pregnancies. Idiots

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2 years ago
It depends my husband was very disciplined and we used it (with tracking ) for 8 years successfully.

My only unplanned pregnancies were on the pill.


Doesn’t sound like he’s any good at it I wouldn’t be relying on it.
Also you can just use pull out you should be aware of your cycle too

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2 years ago
In my experience he needs to be very controlled. Look kid, this is a free country and you're entitled to make that choice between you both. But in my experience, the pull out method ain't worth SHIT as a contraceptive method. I have 4 (FOUR!!!) fucking kids because of believing in that. "Oh he's got good control, it'll be fine" - BOOM- fucking pregnant AGAIN!
And I'm lucky to have only 4 kids. I've been with my husband for 13 years and for 12 of those we've relied on pulling out. I've been pregnant and breastfeeding for so fucking long (I've miscarried more than once) I've forgotten how to adult without it.
Don't trust men and their bastard dick magic. They sucker you in with such fun and sexy times, then squirt their bullshit in you and knock you up.

And before anyone asks, because I'm an idiot okay. Because I prioritised being a good and faithful catholic before my own body autonomy. Like a fucking idiot.
And also, yes I do love and cherish my kids. But four is way more than I ever hoped for.

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2 years ago
One of my favourite responses on this website, ever
I'd like to shout you a beer, friend x

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2 years ago
Well then I'd stop having sex with him unless he wears a condom. Can you get a mirena or similar implant?

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2 years ago
The pull out method is like playing Russian roulette with your reproductive decisions. If he can’t control himself it is closer to playing Russian roulette with a fully loaded gun and hoping you don’t die. You have to tell him to wear a condom if you don’t want another child or stop having sex.

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2 years ago
I would start tracking your ovulation and avoiding sex during fertile periods or find a non-hormone option that works for you both (copper iud, diaphragm, female condom, etc).

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2 years ago
You do know he doesn't have to ejaculate to get you pregnant right?