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Wouldn't the logical first steps be for him to admit his wrong doing to his wife, do all he can to support his current family to transition to their new life, then start an actual relationship with you to see if you are actually compatible in a relationship (not just an affair!). Them once you've established a stable relationship start thinking about children? An affair partner and a person you are raising children with need very different skill sets!
Do you deliberately use the same writing style every time so that people know who you are? Or do you not know how to write any other way?
I am a mother of twins, I think you should spend time with a twin or multiple mum before you make that decision.
It is not just two beautiful smiling babies all the time, it's massive sleep deprivation and exhaustion, trying to feed two babies at the same time, trying to get them to sleep at the same time, when one gets sick the other is to follow etc etc.
If he hasn't made a solid commitment to you yet.....I think you are crazy to even consider to try for twins or a child at all with this man!!
I hope this is a troll question. Surely you can see 3 years along he is not going to leave his wife. He is probably cheating on you too. And bringing kids into this will just worsen an already shit situation. You met him on POF. He wants roots and nothing more.
Also, who’s gonna pay for the ivf?
You can’t believe this. It’s been 3 years. He is still with her. No children or anything will make him leave