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Caring or annoyed about petty things and bringing it up with the other person ?

Answered 4 years ago

So there are certain things my partner who I love does where it’s not really a big deal but it annoys me how I react to it. Example taking his female friends recommendations on what to watch or eat, liking their pictures on Facebook, popping gum, clicking tongue constantly and tapping etc
I know the reality is how I’m feeling about it but should you ignore these petty behaviours or being them up? I feel like it makes me look jealous neurotic insecure all the bad things. Would it be better to appear ok about them instead?


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4 years ago
Things only fester when you bottle them up

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4 years ago
Leave him

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4 years ago
There’s some girls I don’t like my partner talking too, I made it clear cause as a female I can clearly see their intentions (a bit of a throw back to the post about the poster annoyed her husband didn’t protect her probably not realising the blokes could all see she was sending mixed signals)
One of them changed her profile picture to a highly revealing , extremely filtered picture and kept messenging asking about if certain tyres would go well on her new car, he messaged back and said WE could come around and have a look , suddenly she had it sorted!
He also taps his foot constantly if he lying face down on the bed on his phone, annoys the shit out of me so I tell him and he laughs and stops it.


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4 years ago
Ugh mine taps his foot on the bed just as I am trying to go to sleep. I told him if he doesn't want it broken off and jammed up his butt then he will stop it. He does that a whole lot less now 😂

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4 years ago
Talk to him