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Surprise baby- how did you feel

Answered 2 years ago

Very very happy with my two girls. Have felt ‘done’ and didn’t want more. Well holiday whoopsie and I think I’m pregnant. Kinda if freaking out, kind of ‘it’s meant to be’. How did you feel with a surprise baby?


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2 years ago
My daughter was barely 2 yo when I found out I was pregnant. I had no idea. Never felt ready for a second and had just got into the swing of things with no. 1. I actually secretly cried when the test was positive. I love my 2nd daughter dearly, but probably would have given it a bit more time if I could go back. I suffered with depression after her birth.

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2 years ago
My first was 9 weeks when I got pregnant

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2 years ago
No doubt the trolls will love this. But it wasn’t meant to be. Had a positive test the last two days but overnight started bleeding heavily and cramping. Thanks for all the decent responses.

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2 years ago
Im so sorry to hear lovely. Our thoughts are with you.

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2 years ago
♥ ♥ I'm sorry for your loss, even if it was unexpected

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2 years ago
Think of it as a blessing

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2 years ago
She got pregnant cause she had sex when she was ovulating

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2 years ago
Doesn't mean ovulation and sex equals pregnancy every time!! Can take months even if you ovulate and have sex.

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2 years ago
Congrats lovey ❤

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2 years ago
We stopped trying for number 2 after a few failed fertility treatment. Three years later and I'm pregnant.
My feelings were really mixed - of course happy, but also took a lot of processing as we'd let go of that dream and shut the door on it. You are allowed to have mixed feelings about it - it is a big, life-changing bit of news!

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2 years ago
Thank you, it’s pretty big news you’re right! I know I’ll be ok, just a bit overwhelmed!

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2 years ago
A lot of mixed feelings. Happiness, anxious, unsure if this is the right time. Now as I hold my little baby girl in my arms I know she was meant to be here. I might have closed the baby door many years ago but right now all I can say is I’m glad it opened again. It took me a while to get used to the idea of having another but once I did it was just an exciting new journey.

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2 years ago
Thank you for your reply. Exactly where I’m at now- overwhelmed yet very thankful. I know we’ll cope, the girls will be very excited, I’ll just need time to adjust. Xx

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2 years ago
I was so happy with our surprise third she is a little girl after our 2 boys ❤️