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my evil side passive aggressive side would consider doing the crapy craft present that your kids can help you make ..like a paper card with lots of glitter or any of those animal craft projects ...remember gifts from the heart are so special ...failing that a lovely book about manners for kids
Could always get them lollies? Tell them they are for the day after the party. Then the mum has to deal with the sugar high from their party and a sugar high the next day when they're all coming down from the last sugar high and cranky as hell.
The mum said that? How nice of her. My deepest ambition for those parents is to tell them to go jump but it makes it harder when all the kids are friends. In honestly just give a token present something small they should be grateful they get anything I would do something like coloring books for older 2 story book for 1 year old something small.
That is very rude and very ungrateful as well. Kids do ask this question, just out of excitement and curiosity I mostly answer with how having them there to celebrate with us is the present and anything else is a bonus and we should just be grateful for what we get. My first thought that comes to mind is are the family struggling. Could your present be all they really have to look forward to? I wouldn't punish the kids because their mother is rude.
Wow, get nothing, seriously!!! That is too many kids to start presents. It'll only mean expecting presents every year for every kid. Maybe offer to bring a plate of food instead.
That is extremely rude. It puts you in a tough situation too because they're your neighbours and the kids are friends.
On the other side though, just without jumping to conclusions, is it possible that your kids told them they are getting something extravagant or that they really want but their parents have got it for them? My old neighbours child told my child they were getting them a present I got them because he really wanted it. I didn't mention anything to their mum because I knew it wasn't happening but my child kept telling me that they were getting him this present. If she doesn't know and could think they're getting something expensive maybe it is her way of trying to say not to go overboard or put yourself out. Then again it would really be up to your judgement on how it was asked and what she is like with those sorts of things.