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Absolutely not on.
It's the first time that you know of... Like you said you think it's happened before. You have a choice to make and sadly he doesn't seem to want to make a positive change. Can you live much longer in this environment with your children, and with behaviour that is likely to escalate ?
Maybe step back and look at the bigger picture and ask yourself why there’s been ongoing issues???
‘Normally great’ men don’t behave like that. I’d feel the same way as you. Red flag.
My ex started acting exactly like yours. Turns out he was having an affair. I am sure he was stressed dealing with trying to hide it, keeping things up with her, keeping things up with me, making sure his work didnt find out, etc.
Not saying yours IS cheating, but looking back now I can see why he was acting that way.
He refused to take my daughter somewhere one night because she changed the radio station (completely irrational behaviour), she was 14yo.