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Join in! Either on him or sort yourself out! My husband does it in his sleep or grinds the mattress, so do I. I wake up to orgasm, it's great 😂
I must be a prude, this would bother me! Nothing against masturbating I do it all the time but it should be done in private. Why wank and not wake you up for sex? Why not go somewhere else and do it? I find it a bit disrespectful to be honest. Like they must be thinking of someone else or they would be trying it on you, you're laying right there if he wanted you he could have you. Or at least try.
Hmm doing it right there beside you is a bit disrespectful in my opinion.
Couldn’t even tell you how many times I’ve woken up to my dude jerking it to porn in bed! 😂 couldn’t give a rats a*s tbh. The shaking bed has annoyed me countless times tho ha! Sometimes I join in, other times I roll over and go back to sleep.
If it bothers you then its not on. Each relationship has its own sets of boundaries and standards.
Communication is key.
If this behaviour you feel is something best done in private then explain that to him.
In future he should just go have a shower. Waking a sleepy mummy can be like poking a hungry bear.
I personally couldnt imagine my husband doing this. Hes a private man and wont even poop infront of me but will proudly yell "oh no honey there is something wrong with the toilet. Quick come here" have me running only to discover a dam foot long sub wedged against the side of the bowl while he stands there triumphant with his creation
I dunno I think it's weird. I don't give a sh+t if husband does it and I do it to when no one is home. And he will do it in the shower usually so there is no mess. It doesn't cut down on our sex life. Masturbation is healthy and sometimes you need me time but doing it while ur asleep next to him is weird to me. Maybe he wanted you to wake up and join in (a weird way to get you going) who knows but if my hubby did it I'd be like wtf you doing in trying to sleep go do that else where lol
It's completely normal, he's being considerate by not waking u up for sex so that's good! Most of the time I just join in though :)