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I just tell my hubby no, I'm tired/not in the mood etc. (Whatever the actual reason is). I don't need to make up stuff.
“I’m not in the mood right now”. If I had to make up excuses I would get rid of that man.
We have sex almost every day but I hate doing it when I have my period. Hubby thinks I have it for 5 or 6 days but it only lasts for 2. I just need a break sometimes
We only have our 13yo dd still at home and Hubby works from home so we have a lot of alone time. Although if we have a really busy day ahead we'll sneak one in before getting out of bed. Night time sex does not work for us as I go to bed quite early 🥰
On the rare occasion either of us isn’t in to it it’s usually because we are exhausted- so we just say we’re tired.
That said, I’ve discovered it makes me sleep better, so sometimes if I’m tired I just say let’s be quick lol