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Mother in laws are usually the ones giving u a hardntime. Its hard to talk to men. About feelings they don't care. I can't get far with my partner with that stuff. Let him know he is stressing u out.
Talk to your husband honestly and brutally. Tell him exactly how you are feeling and why. He may not realise just how bad the situation has become. Tell him that your love for him died that night. I know it sounds harsh but he needs to hear it otherwise you will become so disconnected from each other that it will be impossible to (or very hard) to come back from. There is a fine line between love and hate, and if you really love him you need to let him know how you feel and what he is doing to hurt you.
Hopefully he can process what it is he is doing to make you feel repulsed by him and he can go about trying to fix it. I understand that everyone is different though. Some men just don't want to hear it. Good luck with it.... I wish there was a cookie cutter answer for everything, I hope this helps.
The only way to change it is to work in the relationship. Spend time, talk, reconnect... you may need the help of a councilor, but it can be doNEn if it's what you really want
Saw this on another question and think it applies here too....
"When you get married, many people stop dating thier spouse (communication, alone time, common interests besides house and kids...). So I'd say date your husband like before you had him locked in"
Whoever wrote it, great attitude.