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Yes you will be judged. Just as much as mums are.. well..... almost as much. I had my kids later than average and was constantly grilled about not having kids. Then I became a mum and found out what’s it’s really like to be judged. People are have opinions on everything even if it is none of their business. You cannot live your life living up to other people’s expectations.
Also if you think the parenting is about struggling with ironing and housework etc then you’re very wrong. If only parenting was that easy 😂
(Ialso have a feeling this thread was inspired by another thread about someone feeling overwhelmed by ironing and housework...... but just in case I’m wrong you have my legitimate response above).
I'm sure I'm judged. I had my kids at 19 + 20. I work full-time. I'm kinda bogany. I'm messy. But I just avoid real people so I don't have to hear about it 😂
I love my kids and had them at 30 so I knew what I was doing. It is an incredible experience but not without its challenges. Also, you will never be truly ready so if you are thinking I won’t because I’m not ready than I can tell you it won’t happen. I never held a baby until I held my first and was not very maternal, you do learn to adapt. Good luck on whatever you both decide.
I feel bad for bringing my beautiful sweet children into this cold and cruel world. I am suffering debilitating anxiety about my children being away from me because of the state of things.
Either way we are wrong. But I could never be without my children. Ever.
All the horrible housework is worth it, it's a love you never imagined feeling until you have it.
All the best, different strokes for different folks.