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Look, you say you regret not leaving him then, leave him now. You're not controlling him.
HE made the choice to delete his Facebook.
HE made the choice to share yours.
HE made the choice to stray from your relationship.
HE is the one making a fool of you.
Now, let's take some ownership here:
YOU are the one who chose to stay.
YOU continue to stay.
YOU are the one who obviously didn't out him about his online cheating (why would his friends think you're controlling if they knew the whole story).
YOU are "so done" with men, but you're keeping this pig around whom you can't trust.
He broke your trust by cheating, and you're worried about whether his mates think you're controlling?
Baby girl, you need to end the relationship. Not because he's getting his own account (because he likely has a secret one anyway), but because the relationship is dead as is. You end it because he's a lying, cheating piece of shit.
TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AND LIVE IT!!
F**k this pig man off, f**k his ridiculous dude-bro friends off, f**k off ANYONE that gives you herpes. Why are you staying??
Leave him. Leave him. Leave him. Leave him.
8+ BILLION people in this world and you stay with that one? Nah-uh. You're better than that.
How do icky men like this get so many women chasing them? Does he look like a god or something? 100% think this is subconsciously why I go for average joe kinda blokes.. I don't know how relationships work for women when you're not the hot one 😂
Also, I reckon I'd run my husband over if he gave me herpes and we'd definitely not need to worry about social media accounts. True story.
The women that have physically fallen for him, he's probably manipulated them so far into the fog, they can't see him for the shitbag he really is.
Just comment hubbs can't be trusted because he is a dirty cheating wh**e who gave me herpes
I Didnt read your whole question, but my first thoughts are DELETE FB, its shit, be free of that crap
I don’t know why you’re still with him. And no doubt he’s lying to his friends about the reason for the joint page. It’s not up to you to explain it to them though. It’s none of their business.
I think you deserve some counselling to help you heal, sahm have the contacts on here somewhere, like lifeline etc.
Keep your head up and be strong.
I have no answers, I can't imagine what its like but I do know one thing; where there's darkness there'll always be light. You'll be okay. You're stronger then you think. Best wishes matey xo
Hugs to you ❤️
I hope your depressed feeling has subsided a little. All I can suggest is that you start atleast preparing to leave..you know what I mean. Maybe not this year, but next year..be ready.
4 years ago I was you, then the worst I lost my mum and that gave me the kick in the a*s to [email protected] him off. Life is short and I was not happy our kids weren’t happy. Now I’m in a healthy happy relationship with a great guy, don’t get me wrong we have fights and I get triggered by certain behaviours but the best thing I ever did was tell him, his herpies and his “friends” To [email protected] off out of our lives.
It's probably because everyone thinks couples with joint social media accounts are weirdos and don't understand your reasons.
Oh ffs lady, get out now. Have some bloody self respect and live the rest of your life happily.