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Confession time! Where have you had sex other than a bedroom? How old were you, and would you do it again?

I recently remembered having sex on a picnic table with a boyfriend when I was 20. We were both fully clothed, it was day time and there were leafy trees all around. We did it slowly with me sitting on the edge of the table. Not long after we started an old couple walked past and smiled at us. I am sure they knew what we were up to 😄 I'm 42 now and while it is a fond memory I would never do that now!!


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Is anyone else worried about germs? Just me then? 😳

Soooo many public risky places with my married f**k buddy. Anywhere is wife or anyone else would find us.
We arent f**k buddies anymore. We were in our 30s
Drive in
Bush tracks
Hiking trails
Out in the open
His work
Public pool
Car parks
Outside his house while wife inside
And the list goes on

 Why did you want his wife to catch you?
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 Why would you sleep with a married man? Says a lot about who you are as a person.
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 It was probably part of the excitement for them...some people are junkies for that type of thing, gives them a rush.The poor wife, though. Did she ever find out? You are horrible by the way, you seem proud of it.
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 I can't believe you speak so freely like almost hero factor about your Conquests. I don't understand people like you
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 Hahaha it's funny when wh***s try to act like heroes.
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 Ew public pool
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Car, shower, behind school, stairs at my house, my pool, friends bedroom floor, movies, hotel bathroom while his family were in the hotel room, park

I like planes..... I give the pilot a BJ coming into Brisbane on a small plane and we were to only people on board and he asked me to sit in the other pilot seat. One thing led to another and he was young and hot. Very exciting.
On a trip to the US, I gave my BF a BJ on the plane in the dark and on the way back we fu***d in the toilet. It was quick but super exciting in the build up.

 There was a plane crash happend once in America, becuse Pilot was so busy having sex with a passenger.
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Hmmmmm at a bus stop, at the beach, pub disabled toilets 😖

Beach at night with a storm out to sea with lightening & thunder

On a park bench in a park on the Main Street in Wagga.. The park just near the bridge. It was who knows what hour in the night. There were people walking past who would have seen but we didn't care. Young and dumb I guess as I would never do it now.

Most risky was probably a target change room last year.

Cricket pitch in the middle of an oval

 Is that you from a small town?
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 Nope- quite a large area with lots of houses surrounding it. Was great fun!
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On an oval in the dark with a group of people sitting nearby

So not that adventurous but kids.

 I love that 'but kids…'

its the same for us, most adventurous we have gotten in the last few years in the couch, shower or lounge room floor.

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Just last week I was having sex on one of those lookout things that hang over the ocean. Something amazingly thrilling about it and it's kind of our tradition to do it everytime we go to the beach. I've given blowjobs and hand jobs while driving, we've pulled over on back roads and gone for it over the bonnet of the car, basically anywhere we have time to ourselves and no kids lol

- In a park at night time - on the picnic table and against a light pole (the light was broken).
In the car on top of a mountain at like 4am.
- On the couch in his parents shed/man cave.
- Underneath our house - in the open areas underneath our old Queenslander house.
- On a mattress on the tray of a ute
- On the internal stairs of my old apartment
- On the kitchen bench
- On a computer desk
- At the beach (do not recommend)

 I forgot to add this was between age 16 and 24. All but one with the same man too. Probably wouldn't do most again but you never know.
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car in car parks (parks, church, restaurant)
Work (office, meeting room, hall)
Picnic chair/table at one of the rest bays on the side of the road on a bright moon lit night

In a park
Backyard on an outdoor chair
Beach (at night, no one around - my favourite)
Up against a retaining wall in a secluded public area