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My husband is seeding at the moment so I do everything he literally is working 18 hours a day. Obviously that is not all year, about 6 months of the year is flat out busy, then 3 months is busy but not excessively, then the other 3 months of the year is quiet. I don't expect or want him to do anything at home while he is working stupid hours.
Dairy farmer here. My husband is working 16 a 18 hour days, ATM. He doesn't even empty the dishwasher. I have a part time job 7.30-2.30, then come home and help milk, then do the regular chores. However, something snapped this week (the state of the house) and i hired a house cleaner to come once a week there's only so much that I can do. You should do the same.
Because I've just had a baby by c section, I've had my husband and a jackaroo doing everything, including bus run. But normally, hubs is helping with homework, taking out rubbish and the yard work. Because these are things he can do no matter the season. When Its quite he tends to do really deep cleaning and house maintence. Anything else is up to me