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Gut feeling/ dreamt about the discovery via emails.
Always had his passwords never checked it. Checked it the morning after the dream.(after weeks of a gut feeling)
The email was exactly like the dream.
Called him and confronted him and it all came out
My cousin rang and told me she had just seen him sneaking off with another chick. Well in the car i get.. it was not pretty. I ended up needing stitches in my fingers from smashing his windscreen and he needed a new suit from me tearing literal shreads from him. This happened about 12 years ago.
We did survive it though after a lengthy break and a whole lot of 'talking' (screaming matches more like) You never get back to that 100% though. More like 97%.
Bet he has learnt to hide his affairs
I got an std... had only been with my husband.
Second time, found a text message.
Third Time, if there’s a third time I’ll be gone before he can say sorry.
Intuition, followed by some "mild" stalking, and crazy woman investigations
Found the messages on FB messenger just to confirm after I found condoms in his work bag. Just started the divorce
I was cast into the role of other woman unknowingly, it was an emotional roller coaster. I put an end it once I saw I was being groomed. All I could think was how could I hurt another woman and split up a family? Although, it was more likely that what he had planned for me was mistress. From our conversations, I would say he has done this before.